How to win friendship and trust by influencing people’s feelings: An investigation of interpersonal affect regulation and the quality of relationships

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  2012

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  Human Relations

• Publication date

  2012-04-30

• Fields of study

  Psychology

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  DOI 10.1177/0018726712439909
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