Are you happy for me? How sharing positive events with others provides personal and interpersonal benefits.

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• Publication year

  2010

• Venue

  Journal of Personality and Social Psychology

• Publication date

  2010-08-01

• Fields of study

  Medicine, Psychology

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  DOI 10.1037/a0018344PMID 20658846
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